I’m quite good in studies, averaging about 90%.
I hate people with an attitude.
I have two best friends, both of them are idiots.
Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support.
I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized.
he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that.
he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened.
he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence.
i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me
i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction.
after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly.
things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it.
we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe …
our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far?
this has upset me so much its hard to even function.
I love painting and sketching. Monuments/buildings/sceneries and characters mostly.
I sleep at about 2.
I used to love reading comic books, still do sometimes. especially tinkle.
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I overthink.
I’m really quick to judge, first impressions are everything.
My favourite place to eat out is Chili’s or Third Wave Coffee.
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I love solving puzzles and can solve 2 or 3 rubiks cubes.
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SO, 50 random facts about myself, here you go, if you’re reading this thanks for sticking around. if you didnt, well, doesnt matter, you wont be reading this anyway.
I want to pursue architecture or design as a career.
I love my relatives and cousins (i know right?! shocker).
I broke up with my boyfriend because he wasn’t transparent about his past, it hurts me and he doesn’t care. I told him in the beginning of our relationship that it was a deal breaker for me what do I do?
I love coffee, especially cold.
I study in class 10th.
I’m dum most of the time. smol brain and zero braincells.
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I seriously don’t like getting into fights, but also can’t stand injustice, not a matter of ego, but self respect, if someone is wrong, i let them know, verbally of course.
While others may find it not to their liking, my go to music is old romantic hindi songs, or modern pop. polar opposites i know…
Until we meet again, bbyeeeeee.
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I love reading books and poetry, especially horror, thriller/suspense, detective, fiction genre.
I’m fluent in 4 languages, Marathi, Hindi, English and Italian.
I love to read russian literature. Dostoevsky and Chekhov are GOATed.
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Was proposed to (once) i declined.
I’m active on discord, made some good friends there as well.
My favourite subjects are maths, english and social science.
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so, lets get going shall we?
I don’t like to wake up early.
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Potter-head through and through. get the reference?😏
My hometown is Pune, Maharashtra.
I’m a boy.
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I’m a total history geek, especially greek and roman as well as indian history.
The next place on my travel bucket list is Italy.
My favourite quote is “If life gives you lemons, throw them at the shopkeeper because you asked for oranges.” such wisdom uff.
I was born in Madrid, Spain.
I’m 15 years old.
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I love soft rock, elvis presley, oldie music.
I have a very unique name, most of you will never have heard it.
I live in Delhi, India.
I listen to sad songs even when there’s no sadness.
I have been to 6 countries, Spain, Germany, Czech Republic, Turkiye, Oman and Belgium. Four of these when i was below 5.
I write short stories and poetry as well.
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I have 2 really good friend circles, one in school, one at home.
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That’s it then…
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I’ve found some good friends here on quora, love to talk with them, special shoutout to Open Mic ! Open Baccódi and InkVerse Hub.
My favourite foods are butter chicken and pav bhaji. polar opposites once again.
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I would do anything for my parents.
Total warfare geek too.
I sometimes don’t like people who use too many emoji’s.
i used to make fun of people who did this, and used to say that even i dont know 50 facts about myself, but i’m bored, and here we are. what can one do if one is a hypocrite, right? ooh, could be the first point…
